What do we really want in life? Is the question that we sometimes ask ourselves.
Are we doing the things that we have been doing only because others tell us to do so? Or are we exercising our own free will?
I felt it before, but I can only voice it now: There are external forces that control our lives.
When I say external forces, it can either be people or nature, which we don’t have any control (though, nature can be somewhat affected by man). And, also we can also be one of those external forces — influencing other people’s lives either positively or negatively.
To give you an example, suppose Terry was born in country X, raised by family Y, and influenced by media Z. Do you think Terry’s personality would be a lot different if he was either born in country A, raised by family B, or influenced by media C?
Other people, institutions, or even ideologies, which doesn’t really exist in the material world, teaches us to act in a certain way even if we disagree — silently that is.
Some might say, being one with the group gives us advantages. What if what the group goals are different from yours? Will you give in? Or will you rebel?
I’m probably asking too many questions, so I’ll quote someone whom you might know.
Here’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes… the ones who see things differently — they’re not fond of rules… You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things… they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.
If you have dreams, go for it, even if you need to smash a wall that is right in front of you. Or, you could simply get a ladder and climb it… or dig a hole under it… or anything else, the possibilities are endless. There’s always a way.
Like Sylvester Stallone said in the movie Over The Top: “The world meets nobody halfway. When you want something, you gotta take it.”
Don’t be afraid to disagree. Don’t be ashamed to stand out. And, we don’t become crazy — we allow it.