Don’t Get Me Wrong…

Don’t get me wrong… We commonly encounter that phrase (or sentence) when reading blog posts on the web.

For example, “Cats are fabulous pets. Don’t get me wrong… dogs are adorable.”

I’ll admit I even used “Don’t get me wrong…” in my writing. But what does it exactly mean?

It could mean, “Please don’t misinterpret what I have to say…”

or maybe:

“What I’m about to tell you will most likely piss you off, but I don’t want
you to hate me for it that’s why I’m putting on a disclaimer: Don’t get me wrong.”

It’s been a year since I started blogging…


I was just visiting my blog a while ago when I was surprised from that notification I received from wordpress.

It’s been a year….

When I first started blogging my writing wasn’t that good. I didn’t even expected that I’ll be writing a lot of posts.

But then something happened. I started to like writing….

I remembered back then I was dreaming on becoming a real writer. You know, those people that who writes books and articles.

I bought a read a lot of books about writing, honing my skills along the way by writing posts in this blog.

Back then I was writing daily. Yes daily.

I never wanted to miss a day that when I can’t write a full post I’ll just write one of those short quotes.

Ah those were the days.

So what happened? Why did I lay low in writing posts?

I’ll answer.

As I can remember I missed a day of writing a single post. I tried to make up for it by writing some more, but in my mind it’s already alright to miss a day of writing a post. Also, I wanted a break from daily writing back then.

Fast-forward for a few more months and here I am writing a blog post again. I decided that since it’s my blog’s anniversary then I shouldn’t miss the opportunity to write a post.

And oh, since I like learning new stuff. I learned this new acronym tl;dr (or TLDR) which stands for…

Too Long Didn’t Read

Whitebeltblogger is celebrating his blog’s anniversary by reminiscing the past.

Thanks for reading (even if it’s only the TLDR)!



Blogging has benefited me, really…

Here I am writing a post again. I haven’t blog for quite a while. But in spite of that I’m still grateful I tried blogging even just for a short while (a few months) last year.

Firstly, it improved my writing skills (as well as grammar). Before blogging I haven’t identified myself as writer. Blogging is writing.

Secondly, it gave me blogging experience. I wrote over 100 posts (although some of them are just short quotes). If ever I’m gonna start blogging again I can be confident that I can deliver.

And lastly, I never thought of this before, but the posts that I have written gives a glimpse on how I used to think. What I’ve written so far are my views, values, and ideas on those times.

I may change my outlook completely, but I can always look back on how things used to be.

Those things said, I’ll wrap this short post. Thank you for reading 🙂



White Belt Blogger Is Back

The Journey Continues

Yes, I’m back. Although only few days have passed since my last post, I’m glad to be back.

Why all the excitement?

I’ve been known to blog daily in the past. Not that I won’t blog again for consecutive days, after more than two months of daily blogging, I found it unsustainable.

Well I can really force myself to blog daily no matter what, but I realized that it’s not going help my blogging in the long run.

In the past, I’ve written twin posts regarding blogging and not blogging every day. In this post I’m going to give my comments on what I written back then.

Comments on the blogging every day post

Because only a few bloggers do it, posting every day will make your blog stand out. Some of the most popular sites/blogs on the internet gives it readers fresh content every day, even if the content was written by a guest blogger.

Yep, only a few bloggers do it (I was once of them), and I admire their efforts. The thing to note about the big sites, though, is their posts are written by multiple writers or guest bloggers, so there’s no need to worry if you can’t match their output.

People read blogs on the internet either to be informed or to be entertained, or both; so give them what they want.

I agree that we should write to give service to our readers, but do you really think that your blog is the only one they read on the internet? Most probably not. So, take it lightly, most of your readers will understand if you won’t be able to post daily.

Blogging is a form of writing. That said, blogging every day improves your writing skills. However, to improve your writing, you need to learn more about the craft as well (e.g., read blogs about writing).

Yes, blogging every day will definitely improve your writing skill, but so does blogging regularly, although not a daily basis.

Having the desire to write even a short post every day, develops your self-discipline. Self-discipline leads to a higher self-esteem.

Hmmm. To think of it, my self-esteem hasn’t dropped when I stopped blogging daily. But here I am blogging, probably to maintain my self-esteem.

Before you write something, you need to think of something to write first. That being the case, blogging every day develops your creativity and thinking skills, which are invaluable in daily living.

In my experience, blogging every day improved my thinking skills. On the contrary, we can think of things to blog about without writing them at the same day; thus, providing more time for research and idea enhancement.

Comments on the not blogging everyday post

When blogging ever day, there is a possibility that you may experience burn-out and in-turn associate blogging with discomfort. That said, write posts less often when you start seeing signs of burn-out (e.g., fatigue, irritation, etc.).

Yeah, I did experience it, albeit slightly. I didn’t know that I’ll be following my own advice not long after.

If you don’t blog every day, it will not become a commonplace activity — and you’ll feel more excitement when you’re about to write a post.

It depends on the individual. On my side, though, blogging every day hasn’t decreased, in any way, the fulfillment I get after I click the publish button.

If you blog every day, there’s a chance that your readers will only be able to read your latest post. Most people don’t live on the internet, and also, there are other blogs out there that they also enjoy reading.

Similar to what I mentioned above. In my experience, however, readers still read my previous (but not so old) posts.

There are days when you might not be able to think of an idea for a blog post. In those days, you may take a break if you want, instead of feeling frustrated.

You won’t really run-out of ideas, they’re everywhere, but the question is whether your idea is already ripe enough or still needs some refinement through further research and thinking.

Blogging every day won’t really improve your writing skills, unless you make an effort to do so. That is, practicing with the goal of improving your skills. It’s called deliberate practice, by the way.

I still agree with this point. If you were new to writing, like I was before, blogging every day will greatly improve your writing skill. But there will come a time that you’ll feel your skill has plateaued. The solution: try something new.

So what now?

That said, I’ll still write post when I can. It might be on consecutive days, or it might be not — what I want now is flexibility. I haven’t mentioned yet that realizing I have the option not to blog every day made be happier person.

Before, there were days that I was forcing myself to blog even though I haven’t slept enough. I’m not saying that we should avoid challenging experience like that, after all it develops mental toughness.

Knowing that blogging every day is only an option, and not an absolute rule that might be followed rigidly makes me feel better. I feel like a white belt blogger again. 🙂

Why You Should Read Blogs With Bad Grammar

If you’re a member of the League of Elite Grammarians, then the title of this post alone may make you raise your eyebrows. Hold on for a few minutes (or just a minute if you’re a fast reader).

In this post, I’m going to give some valid reasons why you — yes you — should read blogs with bad grammar:

  • A wise blogger once said ‘what you have to say’ is a lot more important than ‘how you say it.’ Not convinced? Allow me to give an example. Suppose you’re visiting a zoo, when someone shouted: “The lions has escaped!” You get the message — and immediately run for safety. You don’t criticize the person by saying: “Your grammar is wrong. It should be: The lions have escaped!” Of course you won’t. You might even thank that person afterwards, that is, once the lions have been captured and caged again. Even though this example is about the spoken word, you get the point.
  • Let’s be considerate shall we; since the internet is a global village, English is not everyone’s first language, so they might not be proficient at it (yet) when compared to a native speaker.
  • Some people with bad grammar are intelligent too and have something valuable to say — if you just give them the chance.
  • If you’re trying to be good at grammar, then reading a blog with bad grammar will give you some practice — on identifying what’s wrong and should be avoided, when you’re the one doing the writing.
  • On the lighter side. Some sentences constructed with bad grammar can make you laugh, such as: “I liked you to be my friend.” Does he mean that simply liking another person’s Facebook comment, gives the liker permission to be the friend of the person whose comment he liked. Well, that probably confused you more than made you laugh. Just remember, though, to laugh on what is written and not at the person; who knows they may improve in the future, and become a member of the League of Elite Grammarians as well.

There it goes. If you still insist on not reading blogs with bad grammar, then I have good news for you; I have written another post titled: Why You Should’nt Read Blogs With Bad Grammar (by the way, the grammatical error on the title is intentional).

Why You Should’nt Read Blogs With Bad Grammar

Have you noticed how I punctuated Should’nt which should be Shouldn’t. Ironic isn’t it; you’re reading a blog post that advises you not to read blogs with bad grammar, when the post itself contains bad grammar.

Anyway, here are the reasons why you shouldn’t read those erroneously written blogs:

  • If you’re not used to what’s considered ‘good’ and ‘bad’ grammar, then there is a possibility that you may absorb the erroneous language you’re reading — unconsciously.
  • If you’re a member of the League of Elite Grammarians, however, then the mere sight of bad grammar may make you cringe — or scream (if you’re too emotional about it).
  • On the other hand, even people who are not familiar with grammar, but who reads a lot, may in fact, recognize improper grammar unconsciously; making them say to themselves: “This seems wrong, but I can’t exactly point out why.”
  • Blogs with bad grammar may not be able to communicate precisely the message they intend to deliver.
  • There are many blogs out there with good grammar; why waste time on second-rate material?

There you have it. To some, this post may seem rude. No need to worry, though, I have written another post titled: Why You Should Read Blogs With Bad Grammar.

Something Bloggers (or Commenters) Must Watch Out For

Earlier I was checking my email, then I saw that one of the blogs I was subscribed to has a new post. I followed the link then read the post — which I find informative.

So, I decided to write a comment (in fact I was the first commenter). My comment got approved quickly. Then, I noticed something was wrong in my comment…

I wrote a wrong name (another blogger’s) when I tried to address that blogger… What I did then, and I guess what anyone who is civil would as well, was to apologize for my mistake; I also included in my second comment that since I can’t edit my comment, if it’s possible that the blogger edit my comment to replace the mistaken name with his.

I was surprised that he implemented my suggestion quickly — without my second comment being published (as it should). I was grateful also that he replied with thanks to my first (edited) comment.

Moral of the Story:
Unlike in a blog, where we bloggers can edit our post later on — should we find any errors or typos — if we are commenting on another blog though, be wary of any factual errors or typos. Because you won’t be able to edit them anymore, unless you ask the blog admin to, like in my case.